Here are 3 things you can do:

1. Throw yourself a big pity party
If you’re wondering huh!…why pity yourself? Well, we’re human with emotions. When someone we like does not feel the same way, it is normal to feel down and sad. You should have one last cry over him. Allow yourself to vent out your disappointments and frustrations. But remember, after the pity party is over, pick yourself up and move on. Close that chapter of your life and trust God will see you through.

2. Make less contact
This would be something hard to do for many. If the guy is a close friend and you share the same circle of friends, this will be a tough call. Try to avoid chatting on the phone or sms-ing as you’re just leading yourself on that things might change if you hung on. Stay away from places you know you can accidentally ‘bump’ into him. I’m not saying avoid him as if he was a plague, but give yourself time to heal. Less contact will help take your mind of him.

3. Choice
It’s really a choice to get over someone. Sure, you mind will occasionally think about the person but you must remember, you are in control of your mind. Try to snap yourself out of the habit of constantly dwelling on that person. Just remind yourself, that feeling will eventually go away as long as you work hard to keep it at bay.

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